"You've got to be OK on your own before you can be OK with somebody else."
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Through Jennifer Lopez's show-stopping career, as we've watched her navigate public romances (and breakups), dance and sing her away across the globe, star in infectious TV shows and movies, and seem to ace motherhood, she's taught us countless life lessons. As we gear up to celebrate her upcoming 50th birthday on July 24, we've whittled down some of her wisest words of wisdom so you can be inspired by J.Lo's best quotes.
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This summer, Jennifer Lopez turns 50. To commemorate the multi-hyphenate's birthday on July 24th, we’re counting down with 50 Days of J.Lo, a celebration of the woman who’s shown us all by example how to be ageless—inside and out.
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On living with intention
Lopez wrote in 2014's True Love,"I had found that taking risks, being true to myself, and making decisions with good intentions can exceed even my own expectations."
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On being her best self
"I’m not here to be perfect and I’m not here to be anything but my best, whatever that means for me,” she said in a 2017 interview with Hola! magazine.
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On personal growth
When speaking about her decision to work towards living a more fulfilling life, she told Vanity Fair in 2018, "... your mistakes are not what define you. What defines you is what you do after your mistakes and how you learn what is meant to be learned from those moments.”
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On confidence
"You have to remember the value of your individuality—that you have something special and different to offer that nobody else can," she said in a 2007 Glamour interview.
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On self-love
When being interviewed by Jane Fonda for Glamour in 2011, the songstress said: "You've got to love yourself first. You've got to be OK on your own before you can be OK with somebody else. You've got to value yourself and know that you're worth everything."
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On independence
"You really have that power to make your life whatever you want it to be,” she said in her 2018 Vanity Fair Interview.
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On her relationship with Alex Rodriguez
When explaining why she and A-Rod have such a great partnership she said to Hola! magazine, "We complement each other, and there’s really pure, true love. Just wanting to support the other person and make them happy. So there’s a different selflessness in the love that’s beautiful and different. And healthy!”
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On body positivity
"You have to stand up and say, 'There's nothing wrong with me or my shape or who I am, you're the one with the problem!'" she told Cosmo for Latinas.
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On continuing her decades-long career
"Being an artist doesn’t start because you’re 21, and it doesn’t end because you’re 51. You are who you are until the day you die," she said in a 2010 Elle profile.
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On taking accountability
“Ultimately, we can never change someone else’s behavior—we can only change our own,” Lopez wrote in True Love.
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On her role in 'Selena'
When speaking with Cosmopolitan for Latinas in 2013, she revealed she had to perform in front of 35,000 people while filming Selena."I just said to myself: Don’t think about it. You can do this and you’ll be great,” she explains. “I walked out onto that stage. And then I did. I’ve been following that rule ever since.”
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On working through hard times
She wrote in her autobiography True Love, "Sometimes you have to explore the darkness to get to the light and get back to who you are."
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On preventing self-doubt
"I feel if in your mind you can do it, you can do it. You cannot doubt yourself. Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for," she said in Glamour in 2010.
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On being true to yourself
The Hustlers star told Glamour, "Always follow your heart. Sometimes it's gonna hurt—but you're going to be fine."
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On staying positive
“Always remember. You will live. You will love. You will dance again,” she said in True Love.
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On believing in love
"Sometimes it doesn’t work—and that’s sad. But I remain an eternal optimist about love. I believe in love,” she told Vanity Fair in 2011.
McKenzie Jean-Philippe
Editorial Assistant
McKenzie Jean-Philippe is the editorial assistant at OprahMag.com covering pop culture, TV, movies, celebrity, and lifestyle. She loves a great Oprah viral moment and all things Netflix—but come summertime, Big Brother has her heart. On a day off you'll find her curled up with a new juicy romance novel.